Greatness
The greatness in others is idolized, overshadowing the fact that they are just humans that are really good at something.
They make mistakes and have insecurities, and are far from perfect. But they are really good at something!
Why is it so difficult to see the same greatness in out friends and family?
We see that they are competent and successful, but we don’t see the fact that their actions are changing the world, because we see the mistakes they have made and the struggles they deal with.
See the greatness in both situations, and support them in being a person that isn’t always perfect.