Self Hate
Imagine that you were told that you had to paint your house. And because you didn’t have any experience so you did a pretty shitty job of painting. You picked ugly colors. You didn’t use enough paint, so it didn’t cover very well. And you didn’t know how to trim, so there are drips and the corners are horrific.
Self Hate is like choosing to live in that home, hating the paint job and how terrible it looks but never picking up more paint to do redo the paint.
Improve the things you don’t like.