Represented
People often want to know how they are seen by others.
Unfortunately, how others see you is entirely dependent on the other person, and the lenses they are looking through. The accomplishments that you are proud of may make them angry, and the jokes you make may be unacceptable.
What is the path forward?
Be the you that you want to be, and let the biases and judgments of others be like water sliding off the ducks back of my emotions.