Negotiation (3rd Value)
Negotiation is discussion aimed at reaching an agreement.
Most arguments and disagreements are focused on the 5% that is disagreed about, and assumed differences of opinion.
What if we started disagreements by finding the 95% that we agree upon.
By finding the the true common ground, all of the falsely assumed limitations are illuminated as non-issues.
Find the spot where what you value and what the other value are not at odds.